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12/05/2009

Charlotte Mason in a Nutshell

I found this quote on the Well Trained Mind forum. Wonderfully simple list of how to "do" Charlotte Mason (aka easy homeschooling!)

1. Read books (LIVING books)
2. Do copywork
3. Practice phonics (for pre-readers)
4. Do math and science
5. Listen to music, look at art, read a poem
6. Take a nature walk
7. Keep a nature journal
8. Listen to narrations after readings-write them down or have child draw a picture
9. Sing folk songs
10 Memorize hymns and Bible verses
11. Get outside and drill (play)
12. Do some handicrafts.

12/04/2009

A Simple How to Homeschool



Ever wanted MORE detail on the Charlotte Mason HOmeschool? Do you just want to get away from spending HUNDREDS of dollars on teachers manuels and textbooks? Do you long for a simple natural way to educate your children? Im right there with you! For my short four years of homeschooling I've spent alot of time researching and seeking a user friendly, inexpensive, and natural course of study for my large family. The thought of my children having HUGE gaps in their education, teachin SEVERAL grades at once and spending large amounts of money scares me to death! I have read several books on Charlotte Mason, several of her books myself and researched every CM style cirriculum known to man (okay so thats an exaggeration) and while I am no expert on CM I am an expert on my family and what works and what does not for us.

In our home we long for a natural living books education that fosters a love of God and a love of learning and that also brings our family together. In using Living Boooks we get an exciting look at history, science, morals and the world through the eyes of authors who have great enthusiasm for what they are communicating. This enthusiasm is quiet contagious and inspires us to know more about a particular topic. Different companys produce a list and guide to this type of study but I find that using them is much like going on a blind date. though the company LOVES the books it chooses its quiet ackward and our family doesnt get into them as we do books that we've choosen for ourselves. That goes the same with any projects or lessons plans presented. When we just jump in and make it up as we go we really get into whatever craft we create. Also we are more likely to just read on when we are immersed in a topic instead of stopping to check the Teachers Manuel. Its also simpler to reach our multilevel home when we've hand picked what works for us instead of using the suggestions of others and what worked for them. No two family is alike.

After watching a program on Fox news about What Are Your Children REally REading I've come to the conclusion that it is impossible for me as a concerned knowledge seeking parent to give my children any MORE or LESS holes in thier home education than public schools do. My children can at least know how to learn and know how to convey what it is they are learning from their parents that Love and care for them and desire to give them the best education available and a passion for seeking out knowledge.
All that to say that I think I've come up with a few steps to help you come around to where I am and be confident in your ability to pick a course of study for your children. Weather it be with a Teachers Manuel and Lesson Plan or all on your own.

Educate Yourself!
Every website, book and home education seminare will tell you the same first step. The first thing you need as a homeschooling parent is education. READ what others have to say about education. Know about different phylosphies of education. Talk to other homeschoolers and find out their favorite books and websites. And then evaluate for yourself what your homeschool will look like. Take plenty of notes! Some of my favorite authors are: Charlotte Mason, Katherine Levinson, Susan Schaffer McCauley, Cindy Rushton and Ruth Beechick to name a few. If I were to suggest just a few books to you I would suggest A Biblical Home Education by Ruth Beechick, For the Childrens Sake by Susan Shcaffer McCauley and A Charlotte Mason Companion by Karen Andreola. Cindy Rushtons books are wonderful How to's as well. My Favorite Websites are: Charlotte Mason Help, Simply Charlotte Mason and this page from Ambleside Online

Decide upon some ideas to try in your homeschool.
Copywork, Living books, Narration, Nature study are very simple and key to a Charlotte Mason education but are also very usful to any style of school. Starting with the basics and adding on later is always a great idea. Even if you NEVER can get on to the more advanced stuff you'll have a wonderfully inspiring homeschool. Check out this video from Bob and Tina Farwell.

Get into some good habits.
Begin your day at the same time every day. Schedule in some chore time. Make a menu plan. Work on Character Training. Begin to have a reading hour (or two). Be sure to have a routine Bible Time and personal quiet time. Pray! A habit of prayer is essental to a great homeschool as well. There are alot of great tips for scheduling your day, training your children and molding your homeschool. Managers of their homes is a book about this very subject. I find it very usful in my home. Alot of times this step needs to come before any of the others. You must have solid habits int he running of your home before trying to teach your children other things

Set up your Home for Learning.
Cindy Rushton has a great book about setting up your learning environment. As well as the book Educating the Whole Hearted child. Both wonderful reads! Worth adding to your library. Purchase good quality crayons, pencils, markers and colored pencils. You'll need the usuall scissors, glue, plain and lined paper. Also some cubbies and shelves for your books.

Get your cirriculum ready.
This is the easy part! You'll need several things to get started.
  • A good hands on Math Program
  • A solid Reading Program if you dont have readers.
  • A few "spine" books: 1 Poetry, 1 History, 1 Nature/Science, and a Read Aloud. We like to have a Daddy Read Aloud and a Mommy Read Aloud going.
  • Pick a few "readers" on level for your independent readers that correlate with one or more of your spines OR that just seem appropriate.
  • Buy a nice journal for each of your children and maybe even for yourself. Well two would be ideal. One for copywork and another for nature study.
Plot Your Course.
Take a Day or more to plot a course, just a general outline of where you want to go and where you'd like to be this year. As a family, and for each individual student. Do you want to see Bobby be more respectful and learn to read aloud beautifully? Could Susie use to write more legiably and have a better work ethic? Do you have littles to train in good character?

Talk to your husband
Ask him what he'd like to see. He may have no opinion on your cirriculum choices but he may have advice or concerns about how to run the home. Does he wish he had a breather after work? Would he like to see dinner time pushed back an hour so he has more time with the children. Would he enjoy taking over Bible time int he evening OR reading read alouds before bed? Would he love to do Nature Study on the weekend where he can enjoy nature with the children? His imput can be so helpful in the homeschool. Ask him you'd be surprized at what you'll find out.


In no way am I saying I am an expert on homeschooling as I still have very young childrena and oh so much to learn. But there are as many different ways to home educate as there are different types of families. No two will look the same as no two homeschools will use the same materials. Be confident and know that you can do a good job teaching your children. The Lord bless you as you go forward on your journey.

11/30/2009

Cloth Diapering....

Everyone knows about my crazy cloth diapering addiction..I love them! They are fun to wear with cute colors and prints. No need to wear pants when your diaper isnt paper! I love the convenience of them. I never run out to the store late at night or in the cold just for diapers. Now milk... thats another story! And they are super cheap! Im not throwing away $50+ a month on poop catchers. I've written cloth diapering posts before so I wont go into much more detail. But here is a fun contest for you! And a great WAHM diapering site!

11/28/2009

Great Finds!

I LOVE LOVE LOVE my local (read 2 hour away) Used bookstore! I've found so many usful resources there! Today I found:

This was an awesome find for me! It made all the Ruth Beechick, Catherine Levinson, Charlotte Mason, ect click for some reason. LOVE!!!

Another God send! Seriously easy to read and simple tools for getting it all together. I never could have imagined how tough multilevel homeschooling can be!! I think this book is going to be very encouraging to me.

11/20/2009

Benjamins Prayer age 4.

"Dear God, I think you can tell Mom to not make any yucky foods that I dont like such as peas and green beans. And God, you made me smile today when you gave me my Mom and my Dad. Amen"

11/19/2009

Plank Eye!

The number one parenting advice I could ever give comes from Mathew 7:3
Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?









3 Steps to Cure Plank Eye!
1. Recognition:
See the problem for what it is! Usually the thing you are most frustrated about in someone else is something you see and do not like in yourself. Especially when it comes to your children! They are like little mirrors and the mimic the best your flaws. So when you feel irrated with a flaw in your child before you begin to work on their heart issue search your own. See if there is any plank in your own eye.

2. Repentance!
1 Return, O Israel, to the LORD your God.
Your sins have been your downfall!

I love this verse in Hosea 14 because it illustrates my point exactly. We need to repent of our sin and not just to our Father in Heaven but also to the children. For being a bad example and possibly for sinning against them. They need to hear true humility and repentence. Seeing repentence modled through you will teach them how to repent to their Heavenly Father. Too many times parents think that having faults will cause the children to loose respect for them and not obey them. Not the case at all.

3. Reparation!

rep⋅a⋅ra⋅tion–noun

1. the making of amends for wrong or injury done: reparation for an injustice.
2. Usually, reparations. compensation in money, material, labor, etc., payable by a defeated country to another country or to an individual for loss suffered during or as a result of war.
3. restoration to good condition.

For every wrong there is a right! And we as parents must be the bigger person and make right our wrongs. Reparation can be as simple as a hug or as complex as a special outing. Im not saying that we should "pay" for our troubles with treats and goodies but we do need to restore right relationships so that we can recapture the hearts of our children. Most importantly if we've wronged them in some way, including wronging them by being a horrid example!


Lastly If any of you lacks wisdom to know what he should he should do he should ask God who gives generously with out finding fault. The Lord will direct our paths in guiding our children if we are willing to ask him and listen to his answer. It might even be our problem more than theirs!

11/14/2009

My Cloth Diaper Interview!


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11/12/2009

Whats in YOUR Freezer?

What's for dinner!? That has been the question of the A4 era!! You see I had menu plans that I followed to a "T" B4.. But now I make plans and they always change.

Who has time to HS 3 kids and soak beans, bake bread, and clean house EVERY DAy!!! Not me!

I've been experimenting with Freezer Cooking. This week on my Kitchen Day (more about the rearranging of "days" later) I spent about an hour cooking up a Quadruple Batch of Whole Wheat Waffles substituting half the oil with mashed Banana. I also made a doubled batch of Banana Muffins with added shredded cucumber. I cooled them and baged them and now have 9 easy breakfasts waiting in my freezer. Good bye Cereal. And it was easy too.

This week Im prepairing myself for a whole day of cooking so I have a stash of 7 meals in my freezer and I'll make another batch of waffles (this time with blueberries!) and some more muffins (chocolate pumpkin!). With all this ready to go it should be much simpler to fight the What's for dinner dilemma.
Have you any experience with Once a Month cooking?

11/11/2009

B4---A4


Im glad Im not the only one who refers to life in B4 and and A4, before #4 and after #4. The age old question that every pregnant mother asks is about the transition from 1 to 2 kids, 3 to 4 kids and so forth. For the record the transition from 3 to 4 is the WORST! Or at least it was for me..

B4 I was an A+ Flybaby! I 27 flinged my house daily. I shined my sink religiously. I obsessed about "hot spots" and did my fire drills. I used a printed Menu planning grid and planned my 3 squares everyday. My kids did cute little preschool crafts and only watched a half hour of tv a day. My daughter had cute lil bows and pigtails even when we were just going to be home for the day. We frequented story time and play dates. My kids had baths and stories EVERY night. Oh and they NEVER skipped brushing their teeth..EVER.

Then came our sweet little boy Jadon.. Bless his heart but he threw us for a loop. Not because of him really but more the changed dinamic of four children over the three. A4 was a different story. Baths were only done if Dad were home to do them. Meals were...spontaneous to say the least. My sink well it hasnt shined in almost 3 years. Preschool crafts? Who wants to clean that up! Bows are reserved for Sunday. Hot spots have breeded like rabbits. The TV is a great babysitter. And Flylady's emails are now extremly annoying reminders of how Im a "failure". A4 I became a bit overwhelmed and a little lazy...

Now that we have our 5th baby in house I see life so much differently. Even though Im not doing all those preschool crafts...Im also not obsessing over a Fly perfect house. Im not "routinely" deep cleaning but things are getting done as needed. Im still learnin the clean as you go deal in the kitchen but it does look much better after baby 5 then it did after baby 4. LOL! I've learned to relax a bit but not too much. I've learned to let the dishes go and the laundry unfolded for a minute and fix that GI Joe or scoop Darth Mauls head out of the baby's mouth with out panick. I would like to say that I am much more relaxed then I was with 2 or 3 children. Im not as lazy as I was with 4 children as I see the necessity of routine and the house running nicely like a well oiled machine. Perfectionism and Laziness have no place in a large family.

11/08/2009

Nothing to write Nothing to read

I was browsing through the Creative Writing Course on Raising Arrows and feeling a little sheepish. I have this blog for my own hobbying purposes but really have nothing to write about. And no one reading whatever it is that Im not writing. I begin to ask myself why I've nothing to say. Im not characteristically wordless. I like to pretend that Im just too busy. But truthfully I think its because I am either so out of routine that I've nothing on my mind OR Im to into my usual routine to have anything on my mind either. Have you ever been a Robot? Or a Zombie? That is me. In one or the other. Not stretching my brain. Not dabling in the education of me or Mother Culture. NOt to say that I need "me time" but I do need a good mental (and physical) excersize. The CWC is where I would like to start. But I just dont know where to begin. So I begin here..feeling rather sheepish.